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Today’s Passover Prophets

Sunday, April 24th, 2005

This is the Passover season, when the story of the exodus from Egypt is retold. The name “Egypt” in Hebrew is “Mitzrayim,” and it comes from the root word “tzar,” which means a narrow place. This story, recited at Seder tables around the world, is not told just as a recollection of a historical event, but also as a metaphor. Participants in this ceremony are asked to imagine that they, themselves, had escaped from Egypt. The idea being that sooner or later, we too will have to negotiate our way through some narrow spaces.

We each face our own tight spots— we may feel captured, even enslaved and hopeless, by our struggles. The Passover story is about making it through those tight places by surrounding ourselves with a community of support and staying connected to people who fill us with a sense of possibility and hope. Here is a modern Passover story:

Peter Jennings, chief ABC News anchorman for more than 20 years, just announced he has lung cancer. In an e-mail he wrote to ABC colleagues soon after he learned the diagnosis, he said, “I begin chemotherapy next week. I will continue to do the broadcast. There will be good days and bad, which means that some days I may be cranky, and some days really cranky!”

Peter Jennings inspires me. As medicine increasingly prolongs lives, and the workforce ages, people will continue to work with debilitating diseases. Pope John Paul II’s contributions were not diminished by his Parkinson’s disease. Chief Justice William Rehnquist, at 80, is being treated for thyroid cancer and has returned to the court. Arizona Senator John McCain has faced recurring bouts of melanoma. Tens of thousands of ordinary people face similar tight spots.

I read this story in the Seattle Post-Intelligencer, while sitting in an airport recently. Diagnosed with leukemia at age 16, Tamara Stevens is now 48 and is the longest-living survivor of one of the first bone marrow transplants. Today, she is nearly nine years into treatment for an aggressive form of breast cancer. During the past nine years, she has had surgery, radiation, and continues to get an infusion every three weeks. She has also raised two children, completed nine marathons, designs jewelry, and works full-time as a project manager for Boeing. Tamara says the key to dealing with cancer is not stopping the things you love to do, especially work. She also advises to surround yourself with others who share a positive outlook, and let go of negative energy.

This is a Passover story . . . illness can enslave the body and spirit, and there will be good days and bad. But, if you face them in community, connected to something that reminds you of the dream, it will help get you through the narrow places to experience your own liberation.

All of these people are heroes in their life’s journey and prophets of hope for us all.

Accelerated Unlearning

Tuesday, April 19th, 2005

By Carl A. Hammerschlag, M.D.

Welcome to the new business world of fast companies, nanotechnology, zero time and E-commerce. This is the information revolution where all new information becomes old with the click of the keyboard. Success in today’s marketplace has nothing to do with having access to information or being able to transmit it rapidly, it’s about creating environments that generate new ideas and that value relationships. To generate new ideas means that you have to accelerate the unlearning of old ones.

What this means for the Association industry is that those who create environments that welcome new ideas and who value relationships will thrive. I spoke to several friends in the business about what will define successful associations in the future. Susan Sarfati, CEO of G.W.S.A.E., said “we need to create ’safe harbors,’ places that encourage courageous, open, and honest exchanges where people can take risks and even talk about fears and failures.” Russ Abolt, CEO of International Sleep Products Association, said, “successful associations are those who continue to build community. We are a global phenomenon, so the need has become even greater to make tangible what it means to be family.” Ed Griffin, CEO of Meeting Professionals International, said “we have to master the technology, otherwise we will only depend on virtual relationships. More than ever we have to remember to maintain personal relationships with our memberships.”

I share their opinions. If you care about what you do and you like the people you’re doing it with, in an environment that encourages new ideas, you’ll be the fast company. ASAE reported that associations provide 90% of all post-graduate education. Associations can do what politicians and diplomats have been unable to do through their meetings, break down the boundaries that separate people and nations.

Seeing things from a new perspective, however, is not so easy. We tend to see what we already know. As a species we seem to look for ways to maintain the status quo. We get settled into old habits.
Neurophysiologists and learning theorists have long taught that the brain does not change after you are six years old. The theory was that the longer the learning, the harder it is to give up. It’s as if the young brain is a fast-hardening Jell-O into which a fruit cocktail of facts and behaviors is poured. Once the Jell-O solidifies, it’s hard to get the fruit out.

Current findings tell us that there are dramatic anatomical changes in the brain throughout adolescence and that cellular changes continue throughout one’s life. The brain is continually changing itself through a phenomenon called “pruning.” The body trims cells that aren’t being used, so it’s continually evolving. It’s still incredibly difficult, though, to loosen patterns of behaviors and thoughts that have been reinforced by years of repetition. The things we learned as children are teachings that can build character but they can also be the source of later pain and dysfunction. For example, be nice, honor your parents, share what you have, be strong, don’t cry, make us proud of you, be perfect, don’t speak up.

The greatest block to creativity is old judgementalism. We stifle our ideas because we judge them as unlikely to be attainable. To be creative means accelerating the process of unlearning or in today’s language, “reprogram your software.” The crux of creativity is seeing things from a new perspective.


Here are some ways to accelerate the unlearning of old judgments and limitations:

1. Learn to play again. Kids are the most creative creatures because they let their imaginations run wild. Kids don’t put down their ideas; instead, they jump in with wild enthusiasm, excited by their originality. Let go.

2. Take more risks. Seek out new experiences (sky dive, scuba, climb a mountain, write a poem, try improv comedy). Do something that gets you outside your comfort zone. These experiences invite the brain to consider things it might not otherwise encounter.

3. Seek out the awesome. Find something or some place that leaves you with your mouth wide open in awe-watching the birth of a newborn, standing at the edge of the Grand Canyon. Seek out experiences that help you not take yourself so seriously. Awe is the best way to keep your ego in check. Taming the ego allows you to make mistakes, even fail, and still feel okay about yourself.

4. Trust your unconscious. Our most important self is that part over which we have no conscious control, like breathing, responding instinctively to threats or falling in love. Our unconscious mind, or intuitive self, has a lot to teach us. Anyway you can see beyond your ordinary consciousness opens you up to new ways of seeing. Some people get in touch with their unconscious minds through long distance running, practicing yoga, listening to music, looking at a fire all night long while listening to drumbeats, or other ceremonies.

All of these ways open the unconscious mind to allow fresh ideas to bubble up. Accelerate your unlearning in an environment that values openness. Perhaps Marcel Proust said it best, “the real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.”

Sustaining our Calling and Cause

Tuesday, April 19th, 2005

Excerpted from a presentation to the VHA/SW Annual Trustees Conference

I believe we have reached the point in health-care delivery when the trajectory of culture, economics and technology are colliding to compromise the care of patients. You are all familiar with struggles: constantly changing legislation and regulations which make it hard to stay in compliance; new technology is changing the way we do business; the impact of managed care; and decreasing reimbursements all challenge our survival. You are non-profit community hospitals whose mission and charter is to address the needs of your communities. How are you going to deal with these issues? How will you absorb the costs of the uninsured, which accounts for 25% of the population in some states? In the old days, paying patients would cover those who couldn’t pay, but this is no longer the case.

Community hospitals, and especially teaching hospitals, are laying-off workers, rationing care to the uninsured, even selling control to “for-profit” companies. Competition for scarcer resources does not breed good neighborliness; as physicians, administrators, and trustees we are increasingly struggling among ourselves. Doctors are feeling that their clinical judgments are being subordinated to fiscal considerations. In order to do right to by their patients, doctors feel it necessary to play games with insurance companies. Forty percent of 720 doctors interviewed in an article in the April 12, 2000 issue of the JAMA said that they exaggerated illness, changed diagnoses, or otherwise “gamed the system” in order to do what was best for their patients. Lots of doctors are leaving practice and many say that they would have chosen a different profession if given the chance to start over.

Administrators are saying the same things; fiscal restraints are forcing compromises. They cannot buy every orthopedic appliance known to man or every new machine. With everyone struggling to preserve income and territory, we are no longer sure we have each other’s best interests at heart. It’s creating an environment that is dividing us and threatens the foundation of our profession. We cannot allow this atmosphere of dissention to divide our communities and our values. We must remind ourselves what we stand for, and that’s a sacred obligation to heal the sick.

The first thing we need to do is stop blaming everybody else for our predicament. Pointing the finger of blame is a narcissistic response that creates fear and division. We need to find ways to come together openly and honestly if we are to sustain a healing community. We can’t all have it our way, so we need to set some limits that we can all live with.

Unless we maintain our faith and trust in each other, we will never be able to address the new pressures that the technologic age and genomic revolution hold in store for us. This is how the future looks: surgeons will be able to operate remotely; altered chromosomes will eliminate some diseases and create new ones; transplanted organs will be cloned, and as a species we will be growing older. How will you sustain community hospitals when patients will be able to get Internet advice and treatment from experts geographically far removed? I believe it is by inspiring their faith and trust in you. Opinions will always differ; surgeons in Boston recommend a different type of back surgery than do those in Seattle for the exact same pathology. Patients can get as much information as they can handle; the task in today’s environment is not getting more information, but getting help processing that information. Community hospitals and physicians will always be relied on because our patients still trust us. Health outcome studies show that improvement in a patient’s health is most directly correlated to the patient’s trust in their hospital, their physician, and their physician’s knowledge of their home life. We must sustain that trust, which is our cause and calling. Our patients will stay with us if they have faith in us and know that if what they need exceeds our capacity we will refer them elsewhere.

These are my recommendations for how to ensure our success.

1. Lighten up. Find more ways to love what you do. Get connected to things that bring you joy everyday.

2. Be open. That means going away on retreat somewhere and sharing your strengths and weaknesses, successes and failures. No finger pointing. The more we come together, the more ideas and solutions will come about naturally. Focus on problem solving and you will create unity.

3. Take risks. Even if the venture doesn’t work out, successful innovation is built on trial and error. The way it was is not the way it is.

4. Use technology. Get an Internet presence, share information but not at the expense of sacrificing personal relationships. We must stay connected to each other and to our patients. High touch is as important as high tech. The huge rise in the cash business of Complementary and Alternative Medicine (CAM) is a statement that people want more hands-on, personal attention

5. Think generationally. We are now thinking quarterly in the language of balance sheets. When the bottom line compromises care we will become just another industry. Healthcare is a ministry and we must look ahead to twenty years from now, and know that we have retained our fundamental values. Remember your mission and advertise it

6. Establish coalitions. Make relationships with others who can complement your services. Nobody makes it alone. Build a community of support, away and at home. Remember the lives that place themselves in your hands and believe in you, and go with joy on our shared healing journey.

Excerpted from a presentation to the VHA/SW Annual Trustees Conference

The Aging Are Paying It Forward

Sunday, April 17th, 2005

This is the season of my birthday, and my grandkids think I’m an old man. Although, they still call me up and ask me to come out and play. The old man is still feeling good — working, writing, traveling — trying to reverse the stereotype that aging people are a burden on society. There is much talk about how older Americans are “breaking down the system,” with predictions that Medicare and Social Security are going broke. So here’s a story of people past retirement age, who, instead of bankrupting the system, are giving it back. Makes me feel good about getting older.

Jerry Conover, a 65-year-old retiree from Denver Colorado, made a good income as a lawyer. He was still working part-time as a mediator in legal disputes. When Jerry got his first retirement check, he didn’t need it. Jerry is among a small, but significant group of Social Security recipients, who don’t need it. They have other retirement plans in place that already meet their needs, so this is gravy.

This is NOT the case for most of the 33 million Americans who get Social Security. Most of them depend on those checks for more than half of their income. About 13% would fall below the poverty line without them.

At first, Jerry thought about putting it in a “lock box” for his kids and grandkids (not that they needed it). Instead, Jerry founded Hope for Generations, a nonprofit foundation to benefit low-income children in his community. He decided to do this in 2003, after talking to some friends who were in a similar position, (getting government checks at the end of lucrative careers), who had enough for themselves and for their kids. The foundation has about 30 donors. Jerry’s pitch to them was that if you can look at your Social Security check as a windfall rather than a necessity, why not give something back.
In 2003 (its first year), Hope for Generations raised $60,000; in 2004, $100,00. The money was used to support local schools’ enrichment programs, specialty teachers, and extracurricular programs.

Already, Jerry Conover’s program has inspired others. Last month, the Merage Foundation, Newport Beach, California, announced Children’s First, a program for low-income kids in their community. Some donors give their full Social Security benefits, others as little as $50 a month. What a great way to “pay it forward,” reinvesting your profits in the dreams of a new generation. If somebody organizes one in Phoenix, count me in.

Choosing Your Time

Sunday, April 10th, 2005

The TV dramatization of Terri Schiavo’s death focused world attention on who pulls the plug and when. Terri left no written instructions about what she would want done if she were ever in this kind of situation. There were only the whispered, intimate conversations that husbands and wives have. Ultimately, it was her husband who spoke up for her, in a daily drama that was played worldwide.

There have been several movies out recently dealing with end-of-life issues. Unlike Terri, however, these are about people who chose their own time to die. The Academy Award-winning film “This Sea Inside” is one. Based on the true story of Ramon Sampedro, this is a terrific movie.

Ramon Sampedro, at age 18, fractured his neck in a diving accident, leaving him unable to move anything below his neck. Ramon lay virtually motionless and bedridden for 30 years. During this time, he wrote two books, one of which, Letters from Hell, inspired this movie. He also learned how to fly: he discovered how to escape his physical limitations by imagining that he could soar through the countryside. It lifted his spirit. He fell in love, and he wrote beautiful poetry. But, after 30 years, believed he’d learned enough and wanted to end his life. Ramon needed somebody to help make the lethal cyanide cocktail and leave it at his bedside, so that all he had to do was turn his neck and suck it up through a straw. The Sampedro case, and assisted suicide, became a national debate in Catholic Spain.

Javier Bardem, the magnificent actor who played Ramon, was interviewed and asked what it was like to play this role. Bardem said, “It’s hard lying still for 5 or 6 hours and I got panicky. But I also learned some important things about myself, like how to control my anxiety, still my movements and tame my impatience. I also learned some important things about Ramon, to identify with what a beautiful thing it might be to be able to move beyond my body and fly.”

Knowing Ramon as he did, Javier was asked whether he could have assisted in Ramon’s death. Bardem took a stand and said, “I am not somebody to tell a person like Ramon Sampedro how he should feel, or what he should do with his life. If you truly love a person and you feel his or her wish comes from a very conscious awareness of their situation; that it’s a mature response to their situation well, I guess I would do it. It’s his life, it’s not my life.”

We need to be discussing end-of-life policy in this country too. Oregon has a “Death With Dignity Act” which has twice been approved in statewide voter referendums. It is the only statute in the United States that allows doctors to write lethal prescriptions for terminally ill patients who want to control the time and place of their death. For patients to qualify, they have to be fully conscious and able to administer their own overdose. Even in Oregon, Ramon Sampedro could not have chosen of the time of his death.

For me, I want to say clearly that if the quality of my life no longer brings me joy, I’d like to decide when I’ve had enough.

Qualified Exorcists

Sunday, April 3rd, 2005

The Catholic Church is facing a shortage of qualified exorcists. There simply aren’t enough clergymen to handle the avalanche of requests from people who believe that they are possessed. So for the first time (Feb. 2005), the Vatican has sanctioned a course for priests and bishops dedicated to teaching exorcism.

What is exorcism? It’s the use of prayer to rid a person of demonic spirits. It has its roots in early Christianity but fell out of favor after the Age of Enlightenment. Advances in science and technology made exorcism seem like primitive magic.

There has been a huge revival of interest in exorcism over the last two decades. A tribute to the power of Hollywood movies, pulp novels, and the late Pope John Paul’s belief, that Satan is a presence in daily life and must be battled.

How can you tell if a person is a candidate for exorcism? The Rev. Gabriel Nanni, an exorcist who taught the recent course at Rome’s Regina Apostolorum Pontifical University, said that authentic demonic possession “must include an utter revulsion to holy symbols such as crucifixes or baptismal oil.” For appropriate candidates, I have no problem with exorcism at all. For most others who are “possessed,” it’s invariably the result of some physical or psychological reason that requires seeing a doctor.

As a psychiatrist, I don’t talk about “demonic possession.” In our vernacular, we call it “the incorporation of a negative introject.” Lots of people have been terribly abused, and/or experienced unspeakably tragic events; I try to help those people move beyond their fear, rage, and internalized demons. I use symbols, myths, interpretation, and medications.

From my work in Indian Country, I learned to add other elements to my therapeutic repertoire: prayer, singing, ceremonies, prescribing ordeals, and using awesomely powerful, psychoactive drugs. Psychotherapy is just another form of sanctioned exorcism; I believe that any power psychotherapists can bring to bear to help people mobilize their own power and promote resilience is therapeutic.

Dr. Carl A. Hammerschlag, M.D., CPAE is a psychiatrist, author, and professional keynote speaker. He is an authority in the science of psychoneuroimmunology mind, body, spirit medicine and speaks about health and wellness, healing, leadership and authenticity . He has delivered motivational keynote speeches to corporate and business clients around the world.