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The Healer

Sunday, November 26th, 2006

Carl Hammerschlag, M.D., Paradise Valley
Author, physician, psychiatrist, speaker

In Dr. Carl Hammerschlag, the spirits of New Mexico Native Americans still roam after more than four decades.

They transformed the son of German Holocaust survivors into a heralded psychiatrist, accomplished author, speaker and bona fide character. “Something happened in Indian Country that changed my life,” Hammerschlag says. He’s talking about when, in 1965, he left behind a New York upbringing for the big, blue sky of New Mexico. He landed a two-year stint at the U.S. Public Health Service Indian Hospital in Santa Fe, where he took up the agency mission of helping otherwise underserved Native Americans.

He came to the Valley in 1970 and went on to spend 16 years as chief of psychiatry at the Phoenix Indian Medical Center before going into private practice. In that work to better others, the Yale University-educated Hammerschlag found self-improvement and a personal mission: promoting mind-body-spirit medicine, known as psychoneuroimmunology—ostensibly bridging the gap between science, spirit and culture. Now 67 and living in Paradise Valley, he has authored several books, including The Dancing Healers; The Theft of the Spirit; and Healing Ceremonies; plus children’s books The Go-Away Doll and Sika and the Raven.

“Just think about what we have to learn from Native people,” he says. “If we only believed that those people that we conquered had some information to share.” In an undulating and admitted ramble, Hammerschlag derides the modern-day disconnect of health care, humankind, incessantly ringing phones, video games and other technological trappings. We no longer value conversation and, perhaps, never truly reveled in life lessons handed down through the ages, he says. Through mesmerizing monologues, Hammerschlag marries the wit and wisdom of Garrison Keillor and Carl Sagan. He has a mission and a message that, when delivered, opens a window to his soul, says Phoenix physician Howard Silverman.

“He’s unconventional, but he comes from a very authentic place,” says Silverman, who co-authored a book with Hammerschlag. “I think his message is that as medicine gets increasingly accelerated and hightech, let’s remember also to include issues related to the heart and related to spirit. I think that’s an important message.”

Mind-Body-Spirit

Sunday, November 26th, 2006

Carl A. Hammerschlag is a master storyteller and internationally recognized author, physician, and speaker. A Yale-trained psychiatrist; he has spent more than twenty years working with Native Americans. Now one of the worlds leading proponents of psychoneuroimmunology ( m i n d – b o d y – s p i r i t medicine), he is a faculty member at the University of Arizona Medical School. He is an expert on how to survive in rapidly changing cultures.

Dr. Hammerschlag’s life work has been chronicled in three critically acclaimed books: The Dancing Healers, The Theft of the Spirit, Healing Ceremonies, and two children’s books. In his presentations, Dr. Carl Hammerschlag brings his gift of storytelling, and unique insights which bridge the worlds of science, spirit, and culture. With poignancy and humor, he leads his audiences on a joyful journey that will stimulate and renew their creative and healing potential. The following are responses to an interview about his work and his book The Dancing Healers.

What is psychoneuroimmunolgy?

Psychoneuroimmunolgy is the science of medicine that deals with the interaction of the mind, body and spirit. It is the connection between the nervous system, the endocrine system and the immune system. But it is the science of mind, body, and spirit medicine.

Is this considered a new science?

Well, it is clearly an old science; we have simply given it a new name. We always knew that mind, body and spirit were interconnected — but now we have ways of measuring it, and studying it in the laboratory, which now gives scientific credence to all of the anecdotal tales that our grandparents once told us and that traditional healers have known since the beginning of time. And that is that what you feel in your heart, what you believe in your spirit, is as least as important as what it is you know in your mind.

Why do you believe that rituals are an important part of the spirit?

Rituals and ceremonies provide us with a structure by which we can get in touch with our feelings. And what it is we feel is crucially important in dealing with what it is we are facing. Rituals and ceremonies help us get in touch with the intangible aspects of ourselves. They connect us with our feelings which is where the spirit lives. The spiritual part of ourselves has nothing to do with coming from a place of certainty, which is really what the mind is about. The mind is about certainty and knowledge that can be proven. The spirit resides in the heart and soul, that part of ourselves where hope and dreams live and have a profound influence in the healing process. Rituals and ceremonies help us get in touch with a part of ourselves, the intangible, unprovable but still profoundly and impactful part to help us deal with whatever we face.

Define Spirit.

Spirit, well it is not so easy to define. I think spirit is the light within that propels us forward during the hard times. Spirit is a quality inside that allows us to face the ups and downs of our lives. The human spirit is that part, the light, the fire inside that reminds us we are not alone and we can get through. And then there is the spirit outside of self, which is another matter. But in this particular instance you’re speaking more of the spirit within us.

Yes, the ineffable quality within, the thing that can’t be defined but somehow we know when it is not there, like depression for example. Depression is when we cover the light inside with all kinds of lampshades of fear and doubt until we are no longer sure the light even burns. And the task of psychotherapy as well as antidepressants is to remove those lampshades so you can catch a flicker of the light which reminds you that you can get through it.

You had indicated in one portion of your book: If we are comfortable only with answers that can be proven, we’ll never really get comfortable. — Have we been taught this or have we just learned it?

Yes, we have been taught it. Part of the unfortunate side effect of the scientific and industrial revolution of the last 200 hundred years is we have been taught to pay more attention to what it is we know rather than what it is we feel. According to the process of science, the really important answers are those that can be proven. Answers lend themselves to some test retest reliability, some scientific equation which somehow provides all of the answers for us. And we have tended to reduce those things that we know because we intuit it, because we feel it, as having a less important status. As a result, we have reduced most of the human experience to a single sensory dimension — knowledge of certainty. And, we have tended to subordinate those things we know because we feel them, we intuit them as having less credence and that is one of the unfortunate side effects of our growing technology. I am suggesting the things we know from the heart, from the unconscious are important. Those things we know because we intuit them not because they can be proven or because they have easy answers. And, certainly when it comes to the important existential questions (what is the meaning and purpose of our lives) it is my belief that there could be many explanations so no one way of answering those questions is better than any other way. For example, why, while you are at an airport and somebody comes in and fires a gun and all the people around you are hit but you are not wounded? If you can’t answer these questions as to why; why it happened to you or why you were saved then there are many ways to explain it and one is not any better than another. And I think we live in a culture nowadays, in which we tend not to pay attention to the feeling parts that have answers for us. Like if we can’t explain it then somehow it’s not real. I believe we have reduced science to what I call scientism because we don’t believe anything unless it has a scientific explanation. As a result, we reduce the richness of the human experience.

Hammerschlag adds, If you anticipate that you are going to have pain, the likelihood is actually that you will increase your pain. There is recent research in psychoneuroimmunolgy; there are areas of the brain that are called “dread zones”. If you believe you are going to get pain it actually increases the likelihood that when you get the pain that it’s going to be severe. If you don’t anticipate, you actually experience less pain, even if you should have it.

In the book, you also specify that “If you only see what seems to make you comfortable, then you are always destined to relive the old experiences and remain closed to discovering new levels of your own being.” How do you get to the uncomfortable part?

You have to take risks! Most of us only want to look at what we already know so we keep doing what we have always done. This is not the journey of hero’s. Sooner or later all of us are going to face something that we don’t know anything about. We’re all going to get older and we’re all going to die. It is part of the nature of our biology. So you want to prepare yourself the best way you know how to seek out experiences that prepare you for the unknown. The secret in living an effective life is not only paying attention to what you know and what you have already seen. lllumine those areas of your mind that have not yet seen the light. The most important things for us to look at are those areas that have not yet been illuminated. Those areas that make us afraid, those areas that give us doubt. Generally it’s those things that we don’t want to look at that are probably the most important for us to examine.

How do you deal directly with the transition of death and mourning, so you can get back to the business of living?

Now death is the ultimate unknowable. None of us are experts in that. All we know is that we leave this level of corporeal existence and that in the biological sense our life here stops, but we don’t know what else happens. We have to deal with the process of mourning for those of us who are left. How are you going to give up the attachment to what was the actual embodiment? I think rituals and ceremonies are ways that help us and every culture has its own defined death rituals and these are ways that help us get through. But then you got to get up and out, because the tribute to death is living a good life, freer, you remember that person everyday, and then you get on with it. If you stay stuck and you hold on to it then you haven’t done the work of mourning. A lot of people don’t want to do the work, they want to hang on only to the loss and misery because they are afraid to continue to living, but that’s not what it is that liberates us. You want to honor the people who have gone by honoring the spirit of their lives. You love somebody deeply you want to use their love to love again. Instead of suggesting, you know I loved somebody I am never going to love somebody again. That is not a gift you give to the person who died. The gift you give to the person who died, whom you loved tremendously is to choose to experience that kind of love again and again. That is the gift of love.

In your book, you state that “We are here for such a short period of time. The important thing is to play the hand you’ve been dealt.” What about the burdened, sick, poor etc?

Clearly there are some who are born into cultures in which they are impoverished and enslaved. They haven’t chosen that, they have been dealt that. But the important thing is you have to learn how to play the hand you are dealt. If you don’t like your cards you can’t call for a misdeal and do it over. Meaning that if you have cancer, you have to find some way to come to it instead of wishing somehow it wasn’t you. If you have an amputation you can’t keep wishing that it isn’t true, because that just makes it impossible for you to be where you are. You have to find some way to be where you are; you can’t always want to be someplace other because it makes it impossible to deal with what you got. And you have some power about how you come to that, how you play the hand. You can give up and give up the spirit of your life or you can find some way to deal with it. You can be poor and still enjoy your family and commit yourself to your kids. If you are always wishing that you were someplace else, and miserable about your fate you can’t win.

Why do most of us minimize our choices by accepting somebody else’s definition of what’s possible or probable?

Because we are afraid to dream, to make leaps of faith, then somebody elses sense of what’s likely to happen becomes your reality. So let’s say you have a cancer of the lung and they tell you, you have a 1 in 10 chance of staying alive for five years. I am suggesting you come to it with the expectation that you might be one of that 10 percent, and choose to find ways to strengthen yourself for the struggle.

In your book you say that responding with “I know it” means that we no longer want to struggle with other ways of seeing it. But the way we once saw it may not be the way it is now. Why do you think we are limited and not be open to re-examination?

Because as a species we tend to hang on to the way we know and do things. We spend so much time learning to see it one way that we figure even if it’s not the best way we have become comfortable with it. And, we don’t want to have to learn it another way because then we’re afraid that the way we once knew it may not be the only way it is. So most of us tend to hang around with other people who know it the same way we do, which convinces us that the way we know it is the only way it is.

I think that unlearning always has a positive affect. I think most people don’t want to unlearn it because it makes them vulnerable. And they think vulnerability is bad. I think vulnerability is good. It simply is an opportunity for new growth. You can’t grow if you’re not going to be vulnerable. That’s the truth all over the animal kingdom — deer shed their antlers, snakes loose their skin, birds molt their feathers, etc. This is always a great vulnerability, but it is the only way the animal grows. The same is true for us as a species. The only way we grow is to give up some stuff — yet growth has nothing to do with adding things on — it has to do with letting things go. You got to make room for new material. If you only want to know what you have already learned you will only do what you have always done. So you only become what you once were, that’s not a paradigm for growth.

Dr. Hammerschlag’s final comment: I think that we can become what it is we dare to imagine. We can actually become the hero’s of our own journey. Stuff is going to happen to us all. I want people not to give up. I want them to know that they are not in it alone. I want them to connect to their truth within, and also to connect to something outside themselves. I don’t care what that is, this is not a plea for eccliasticisn. It doesn’t matter what you connect with, (whales, dolphins, spotted owls, or old growth forests, they may all be names for the great spirit), but is has to be something that you beleive in other than yourself. That’s what sustains us in the hard times. I want people to marinate their minds in what’s possible rather than to marinate their minds in daily newspaper reminders that escalate only in fear, cynicism and despair. I want us to make the changes in our lives and our own families that we would like to see people make in the world and by doing it ourselves demonstrates what is possible in the world.?

For information regarding Dr. Hammerschlag’s presentations, workshops and products, please visit his Web site at www.healingdoc.com

Speaking With Soul

Sunday, November 26th, 2006

By Carl A. Hammerschlag M.D., CPAE

(Dr. Hammerschlag is an internationally recognized psychiatrist, author and healer. He is the only physician to hold the CPAE, Speakers Hall of Fame Award. He can be reached at www.healingdoc.com)

Our job as speakers is to get people’s attention and touch them in a way that leaves them enriched for having heard us. Depending on our orientations, we teach, inspire, motivate, and sometimes change behaviors. Our greatest joy is when an audience member tells us we made a difference in his or her life. To magnify that kind of impact, we have to speak with soul.

What is soul? The soul lives in the worlds of feeling, faith and intuition; it’s synonymous with the human spirit and is what sustains us even through hard times. Soul is what makes you a “mensch,” a person with principle who cares for others and inspires by example.

I have been a physician for 40 years, but I didn’t learn about soul or spirit in medical school. It was only after I came to work with Native Americans that I learned to appreciate the power of the human spirit in keeping us healthy. For 16 years, I was Chief of Psychiatry for the Phoenix Indian Medical Center, an experience that exposed me to traditional healers who found ways to kindle a person’s spirit and help them move beyond their limitations.

In the Navajo language, the word for soul is the same as the word for health, truth, beauty, harmony, and the Great Spirit. The word is “Hozho.” When we speak from that soul place, people hear us differently because they feel our truth. In this age of slick commercialism and salesmanship, there is desperation for that kind of honesty. As speakers, we are not only experts with practiced precision, but passionate people willing to take the risk of being spontaneous. To make such a leap means we also have to be willing to be vulnerable. Don’t be frightened by it. Embrace the vulnerability; it makes you real and soulful. When you come from that place, your audience will embrace you not because of your perfection, but your authenticity. People will remember what you say when you speak the truth of what you feel not just what you know.

My wife Elaine clarified this principle for me one evening, when we were giving our two daughters the requisite sex education lecture. I prepared for this and put together a 20-minute presentation of what I thought was uncompromising brilliance. I wasn’t two minutes into it when my two daughters began to nod off. I would not be denied my time, however, and blathered on for another 15 minutes. When I was finished, I turned to my wife (more as a courtesy then believing she was going to add anything of substance) and asked her if she’d like to say something. Elaine paused for several moments and finally said, “What I know about sex education I can tell you in one sentence.” The girls popped up from their lethargy and, with their hands folded across the chest said, “Oh yeah, what is it?” Elaine said, “If it doesn’t feel good you’re not doing it right.”

Those girls have forgotten everything I ever said that night, but they have never forgotten their mother’s line. That line is actually a metaphor for living a healthy, productive soulful life . . . “If it doesn’t feel good, you’re not doing it right.” If you come only from your head, you will only speak to people’s minds; when you speak from the heart with soul, you can change lives.

Let me give you an example from my own profession. There are 2 million heart patients in the United States who have bypass surgery or angioplasty every year, at a cost of around $30 billion. All these heart patients are told by their doctors that if they don’t change their lifestyles, (i.e., eat healthier foods, smoke and drink less, and exercise more), they’ll be back for surgery in five to seven years, if they make it that long. You would think those facts alone would change their behaviors, but 9 out of 10 of those patients do not change their lifestyles. The fear of death alone is insufficient to change people’s behaviors. The only thing the facts do is remind people of the inevitability of their mortality.

Compare this to the results of Dr. Dean Ornish, the distinguished physician whose program for cardiac patients teaches them what to eat, how to exercise, meditate, build community and connect with others on their healing journey. After a month at his facility, 85% of those patients change their behaviors and do not require repeat surgery.

To impact people’s behavior, you have to speak to hearts not just heads, and this principle is not limited heart patients. Consider the story of Jack Murphy who was the subject of the 1974 feature film Murph the Surf, starring Robert Conrad. Murphy was a legendary surfer, concert violinist, National surfing champion, tennis pro, movie stuntman, circus high tower diver, notorious thief and a convicted murderer. In 1968, he was charged with first-degree murder which he denied committing but was, nevertheless, convicted and sentenced to life in prison.

After 19 years, the Florida parole board voted unanimously to parole him because of his exemplary behavior. Bill Glass, the former football star with the Cleveland Browns, founded a prison ministry 35 years ago. Murphy listened to Glass and Hall-of-Famer Roger Staubach talk to inmates about finding God and how it changed their lives. Listening to them, Murphy considered for the first time, the possibility of faith as a way to change his life.

The same man who once sparked one of the biggest riots at Florida State Prison is now, at the age of 68, International Director of Champions for Life. The job takes Murphy into more than 200 prisons a year, where he preaches, consoles, laughs and cries with inmates. Of course, it’s Murphy the con the prisoners want to see, and he gives them a great show. He tells them about the grandest jewel heist in American history. On the night of October 29, 1964, he and accomplices broke into New York’s American Museum of Natural History and stole the J.P. Morgan collection, including the Eagle diamond, the Midnight Sapphire, the DeLong Ruby, and the world’s biggest sapphire, the Star of India, a 563 carat jewel about the size of a racquetball. Murphy was arrested within 48 hours at a hotel where he and his two colleagues had been throwing lavish all-night parties.

Jack Murphy visits the world’s most violent prisons to spread the gospel. Murphy says, education and employment aren’t enough to rehabilitate a criminal. He says, “If you don’t deal with a person’s heart and soul . . . all you’re doing is passing out Band-Aids.” It doesn’t matter how you share your soul — it certainly doesn’t have to be a religious experience — but it has to be your truth. If you are going to change behaviors, you have to let your audiences see in you what they dare to imagine is possible for themselves. You have to be willing to reach deep down inside and share your truth and the passion of your heart, if you expect people to reach down inside themselves and believe that they can move beyond their limitations. Be the change you are trying to create in others, speak with soul.

Ali’s Love Shuffle

Sunday, November 26th, 2006

Muhammad Ali lives in Phoenix part of the time and has made a tradition of showing up at St. Vincent de Paul’s dining room at Thanksgiving time. St. Vincent de Paul is an inner-city mission that feeds the homeless and those down on their luck. People come carrying their belongings in plastic bags and shopping carts. Before they eat, they pray, give thanks, and then leave quickly to retrieve their belongings — but not on the day Ali arrives.

Nobody knows when Ali is going to show up, but when he does he is immediately recognized; they greet him shouting, “Ali, Ali!” The greatest sporting icon of the 20th century no longer does his famous rope-a-dope shuffle; after more than a decade with serious Parkinsonism, he moves more slowly now. Ali looks gaunt, and he no longer speaks, smiling only with his eyes now, but unchanged is his love of mingling with and touching people. He embraces people wherever he goes; he feels their love and they feel his.

Ali hugs a guy who’s pants are falling down to his ankles, and the man says to him, “Thanks for coming Champ. You are the real thing.” Ali is the real thing and has been a man of truth when he changed his name, refused to go to war, and faced his disease. When I see Ali, I do not see a man whose glory days are over. I see a man who can still take over any room, who embraces everybody and makes people feel good. I see a man who on the outside looks fragile, but inside his light shines strong. I don’t see Ali shuffling . . . I see him dancing and spreading love on Thanksgiving.

I was surrounded by love on Thanksgiving: my children, grandchildren, friends and relatives. We each brought mouth-watering delicacies, gave thanks for our many blessings, and then made a point of doing Ali’s love shuffle. Moving slowly around the room I hugged everyone. They felt my love for them, and I felt their love for me, my eyes wet with Thanksgiving.


Spread Ali love shuffle hugs to all of your relatives on Thanksgiving. Mi Takuye Oyacin.

Still Kicking

Sunday, November 19th, 2006

In February of this year, Art Buchwald, the Pulitzer prize-winning columnist, author, humorist, and pundit, was dying of kidney failure. Not only was he on dialysis, but vascular problems necessitated the amputation of his right leg. He was told that if he chose to do nothing he would almost certainly die within weeks.

He moved into a hospice and used his last days to talk about “the topic no one wants to talk about, death.” But he didn’t die; a few weeks after he moved into final care, for reasons nobody seems to understand, his kidneys started working again. He wound up spending five months in the hospice; during this time he wrote a new book, Too Soon to Say Goodbye. It’s a helluva story about death postponed.

In the hospice reception room which he calls his “salon,” he received a parade of visitors from schoolmates to celebrities, including Ethel Kennedy, Ben Bradley, Russell Baker, the Queen of Swaziland, and the Commander of the Marine Corps. He schmoozed with them all and ate whatever he wanted — from McDonalds’ milkshakes, to the lavish food people brought him.

In his inimitable style that moves from serious to hilarious, he tells us what it’s like to look at your own “dirt nap.”

“It’s amazing how many people visit you if you’re in a convenient location and they’ve been told you’re going to die.”

“People love talking to somebody who isn’t afraid to discuss death, as a matter of fact some of them have such a good time they come back again.”

“Dying is easy, parking is impossible.”

“I have no idea where I’m going, but here is the real question: what am I doing here in the first-place”


This book will make you laugh and also think seriously about life’s realities. He talks about his rich life, his boyhood in an orphanage, his dreams, and his bouts with depression. He is planning to write a sequel . . . I’m cheering for him.

Withering Faith Restored

Monday, November 13th, 2006

I woke up the day after Election Day to be greeted by the ass-kicking, Bush-whacking result of a new majority in the House and Senate, and the resignation of Defense Secretary Rumsfeld. I looked at the bottom of my coffee cup for remnants of drugs before I allowed myself the ecstasy of feeling my withering faith in government restored. I don’t delude myself into thinking that Democrats will have fewer lobbyists, or that the wheels of government will move more quickly, but with new players I feel new life and hope for America.

Talking about my withering faith restored, it’s not only in America’s government, but also in believing that we may get greedy drug companies to change as well. “Big Pharma” has, until now, failed to provide low-cost drugs for treatable diseases like TB, leishmaniasis, hookworm, river blindness, bilharzia, and malaria (which is estimated to kill a child every 30 seconds). Since these are typically Third World diseases, there is no economic advantage for drug companies to produce them.

Dr. Richard Chaisson, an infectious disease specialist at Johns Hopkins, found that Moxifloxcin, a new antibiotic from Bayer, fights tuberculosis. TB afflicts 4.5 million people globally, but Bayer didn’t want to provide the drug because it threatened their bottom-line. But Dr. Chaisson made an independent application to the FDA to conduct human trials. The FDA not only approved it but offered him $1.3 million in funding. Bayer, shocked at this development, decided to support Chaisson too.

On another inspiring front, Dr. Victoria Hale launched a nonprofit organization to address the treatment of Kala Azar, a type of leishmaniasis that affects half a million people a year. Pharmacia, the creator of Paramomycin stopped making it when the drug fell out of favor in the West, even though it cured 94% of the people who suffered from the disease. An Indian firm, Gland Pharma, decided to manufacture the drug at low cost. The globalization of the marketplace makes it more likely that we will increase access to life-saving medicines.


From disgust with my government and corporate greed, I woke up last week with my withering faith restored. Now if we can only stop screwing elderly Americans and provide them with affordable drug coverage, I’d think we’d arrived at the second coming.

Beautiful Warrior Women

Sunday, November 5th, 2006

I went to a Halloween party last week at Alwun House, my favorite community arts enclave in Phoenix. Now celebrating its 35th anniversary, Alwun has provided a venue for thousands of emerging and established visual and performance artists to be seen and encouraged. Alwun House celebrates Phoenix’s cultural diversity and builds a community of openness and tolerance.

Halloween parties at Alwun feature outrageous costumes and original entertainment by dancers, comics, musicians, and artists using every imaginable canvas to explore self- expression. This time, a Celtic dance group called Aretias (Warrior Women) performed a dance based on the choreographer’s experience of her mother’s death. As her mother lay dying, she saw a black crow flying by the window.

The program notes said Morrighan is the Celtic Goddess of Death, Battle and Resurrection. She flies across the battlefields as a black crow, taking the souls of warriors to the afterlife. The dance featured stunning warrior women, some in battle garb; a black-caped crow; and a full-bodied Rubenesque woman wearing a studded, leather bustier and a red string bikini. My first response was to gasp — it was a lot of flesh to unleash — and then I stood in awe at her courage. She danced with joy and abandon. The more she danced, the lovelier she became. She balanced a sword on her head and sensually oozed herself down to the ground. You could tell she loved to move by the joyful spontaneity of her expressions, a warrior queen who said, “Here I am!” Without liposuction, injections, or plastic surgery, she performed beautifully. The crowd went delirious when it was over; I stood for 3 ovations (in part to do penance for my initial swinish chauvinism).

The next day I read about Holley Mangold, a 16-year-old offensive lineman for her high school football team. Actually, Holley is a linewoman, the first girl to play in a high school football game in Ohio. She is 5’9”, 310 lbs, and her coach says she is meaner on the field than her brother Nick (whom he also coached and is now the rookie starting Center for the New York Jets). Off the field, Holley is described as carrying herself with the aplomb of a runway model, with shoulder length hair, burgundy nail polish and the outgoing personality of a cheerleader.

I love these warrior women and am grateful for the reminder that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and even if you don’t love everything you’ve got, you want to love who you are. Alwun House is one of the few places in my town where who you are can be celebrated and appreciated in all its diversity.


Support the Alwun Houses in your communities; they remind us how many ways there are to see beauty.

Beautiful Warrior Women

Sunday, November 5th, 2006

I went to a Halloween party last week at Alwun House, my favorite community arts enclave in Phoenix. Now celebrating its 35th anniversary, Alwun has provided a venue for thousands of emerging and established visual and performance artists to be seen and encouraged. Alwun House celebrates Phoenix’s cultural diversity and builds a community of openness and tolerance.

Halloween parties at Alwun feature outrageous costumes and original entertainment by dancers, comics, musicians, and artists using every imaginable canvas to explore self- expression. This time, a Celtic dance group called Aretias (Warrior Women) performed a dance based on the choreographer’s experience of her mother’s death. As her mother lay dying, she saw a black crow flying by the window.

The program notes said Morrighan is the Celtic Goddess of Death, Battle and Resurrection. She flies across the battlefields as a black crow, taking the souls of warriors to the afterlife. The dance featured stunning warrior women, some in battle garb; a black-caped crow; and a full-bodied Rubenesque woman wearing a studded, leather bustier and a red string bikini. My first response was to gasp — it was a lot of flesh to unleash — and then I stood in awe at her courage. She danced with joy and abandon. The more she danced, the lovelier she became. She balanced a sword on her head and sensually oozed herself down to the ground. You could tell she loved to move by the joyful spontaneity of her expressions, a warrior queen who said, “Here I am!” Without liposuction, injections, or plastic surgery, she performed beautifully. The crowd went delirious when it was over; I stood for 3 ovations (in part to do penance for my initial swinish chauvinism).

The next day I read about Holley Mangold, a 16-year-old offensive lineman for her high school football team. Actually, Holley is a linewoman, the first girl to play in a high school football game in Ohio. She is 5’9”, 310 lbs, and her coach says she is meaner on the field than her brother Nick (whom he also coached and is now the rookie starting Center for the New York Jets). Off the field, Holley is described as carrying herself with the aplomb of a runway model, with shoulder length hair, burgundy nail polish and the outgoing personality of a cheerleader.

I love these warrior women and am grateful for the reminder that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and even if you don’t love everything you’ve got, you want to love who you are. Alwun House is one of the few places in my town where who you are can be celebrated and appreciated in all its diversity.


Support the Alwun Houses in your communities; they remind us how many ways there are to see beauty.

Dr. Carl A. Hammerschlag, M.D., CPAE is a psychiatrist, author, and professional keynote speaker. He is an authority in the science of psychoneuroimmunology mind, body, spirit medicine and speaks about health and wellness, healing, leadership and authenticity . He has delivered motivational keynote speeches to corporate and business clients around the world.